I Came to the USA After Marriage… Now I’m Confused About Who Should Father My Child
I am 28F years old and came to the USA last year after my marriage. My husband finished his master's degree at Stanford and now
works in a big tech company in Silicon Valley. He earns more than $425k per annum. He loves me a lot and got my H4 EAD quickly so we could start our life together. He is a real gentleman he gives me full freedom to roam around, never looks at my phone, and says he trusts me more than anyone. I do not work or study; I just stay home and use his money for shopping, eating out, and whatever I want.
Sometimes I feel bored sitting alone all day, so I opened Tinder/coffee meets bagel/ bumble/hinge just for fun. I was shocked to see so many handsome American men tall, muscular, with blue eyes and perfect bodies. It feels like a dream for a girl like me from
India. I get dozens of matches every day. When
I want to meet them. I tell my husband I am going to see a female friend I met on Instagram. Then I go on secret dates. These guys take me to cool brunch places, pay for everything, talk sweetly, and later invite me to their fancy apartments in San Francisco. I feel excited and free, living my best life.
Now I want to become a mother. but I am confused. My husband is short and not very
good-looking( dusky) American men look like movie stars, and I want my child to be tall. fair. and beautiful like a little prince with the best genes. These men only want to date me for fun; they will not marry an Indian girl because of culture. But I already have a caring husband who gives me money and security. I do not want to break his trust or look bad. Yet I dream of a perfect-looking
baby. I keep thinking: whose child should I have? Can I ask my husband to get IVF from an American? I know it's so expensive in the USA. I want cute white kids. I want my next generation should be more fair.
works in a big tech company in Silicon Valley. He earns more than $425k per annum. He loves me a lot and got my H4 EAD quickly so we could start our life together. He is a real gentleman he gives me full freedom to roam around, never looks at my phone, and says he trusts me more than anyone. I do not work or study; I just stay home and use his money for shopping, eating out, and whatever I want.
Sometimes I feel bored sitting alone all day, so I opened Tinder/coffee meets bagel/ bumble/hinge just for fun. I was shocked to see so many handsome American men tall, muscular, with blue eyes and perfect bodies. It feels like a dream for a girl like me from
India. I get dozens of matches every day. When
I want to meet them. I tell my husband I am going to see a female friend I met on Instagram. Then I go on secret dates. These guys take me to cool brunch places, pay for everything, talk sweetly, and later invite me to their fancy apartments in San Francisco. I feel excited and free, living my best life.
Now I want to become a mother. but I am confused. My husband is short and not very
good-looking( dusky) American men look like movie stars, and I want my child to be tall. fair. and beautiful like a little prince with the best genes. These men only want to date me for fun; they will not marry an Indian girl because of culture. But I already have a caring husband who gives me money and security. I do not want to break his trust or look bad. Yet I dream of a perfect-looking
baby. I keep thinking: whose child should I have? Can I ask my husband to get IVF from an American? I know it's so expensive in the USA. I want cute white kids. I want my next generation should be more fair.
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